“I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers.” Ephesians 1:17 During the first several weeks of my very first professional job after graduate school, I learned a very tough but important lesson. I was a Residence Hall Director at the University of Tennessee, overseeing an on-campus residential building of 550 female students and 15 female student staff members. I was professional, organized, task-driven, and dedicated to my position. But, I